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The Personal WorkshopWhat is the purpose of Personal Workshop?To help each participant grieve and complete their relationship to the pain and unfinished business caused by a death, divorce or any other significant emotional loss. When is it time to do my "grief work?" This is the most difficult question facing grievers. Part of the problem stems from the biggest single inaccurate idea that we were all socialized to believe: that "time heals all wounds." Time does not heal. Actions can help discover and complete unfinished emotional business. When can I begin to discover and complete all of the things that I wish had ended "different, better or more," and all of the broken "hopes, dreams, and expectations" about the future? The answer is immediately. Waiting to do grief work is potentially dangerous. Most likely you’ve heard that grievers tend to create larger than life memory pictures in which they either "enshrine or bedevil" the person who died. This phenomenon increases with time, making it more difficult to discover the "truth" within the relationship. How does
Grief What are some tipoffs that unresolved grief is the cause of my discomfort? Unresolved grief tends to take people "out of the moment," that is to cause you to be off in conversations with people who are no longer physically there with you. [This is not limited to death. You are equally likely to be lost in a conversation with a former spouse, still living, who is not physically present]. Assuming that your physical health is okay,
unresolved grief tends to drain you of energy. Unresolved grief tends to
close our hearts down. Since we’re incomplete with a prior loss, we
almost automatically "protect" ourselves by not loving again.
More accurately, we limit our loving exposure and thereby doom the new
relationship to fail. Commonly, grievers will hide their true feelings for
fear of being judged. Where isolation is the problem, participation is a
major component of the solution. The
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Grief Enrollment is limited to 20 people. Workshops fill up quickly, so reserve your space early. The cost is $995 US or $995 CDN and a deposit of $395 is required to reserve your place. |
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